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Now I’m having a man who earns much more cash than me. Conversations with him about expenses could by no means be ‘only’ concerning the cash - “I’ll just chip in additional than you, certainly?” - simply because there is an fundamental psychological link which i battle to obtain him to know. He does not truly obtain the entire ‘money is my independence’ factor, simply because he has not experienced exactly the same lifestyle encounters as I've. As that 1 MSE commenter touched on: their previous encounters with cash and associations have formed how they organise it now. Even though I have swallowed a specific amount of my monetary stress, and we now possess a joint account for expenses, I nonetheless want nearly all it to become independent. My companion understands why, but he’s nonetheless faintly baffled from the power of my sensation and also the psychological excess weight that cash has for me.

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